Since I will be on vacation for the next two weekends, I am reposting for this week and next week. This week is a repost from November of 2010. While some of the language is specific to that year, the thoughts behind it are still true. I hope that this is a timely encouragement during the season of thanksgiving.
I remember my affliction and my wandering,
the bitterness and the gall.
I well remember them,
and my soul is downcast within me.
Yet this I call to mind
and therefore I have hope:
Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
I say to myself, “The LORD is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him.” – Lamentations 3:19-24
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
I’m not sure about you, but 2010 has been a rough year. Not as rough for my family as some others I know, but it ranks up there as a lean year in many respects. The surprise for me is that I have never been as thankful as I have been this year. Not a stick-your-head-in-the-sand thankful; that is just avoiding reality with empty platitudes and heartless prayers. Not dutiful gratitude born out of blind obedience to some Christian ethic that says, “There is always something to be thankful for in what you are going through.” That just keeps our eyes off the true focus of our thanksgiving.
The reason I am more thankful this year is a deepening understanding of three words: God never changes. If this doesn’t make sense, think about what has brought you the most comfort in difficult times. I would lay odds that most would say family and friends; those we love anchor us and heal us and hold us when we are going through grief, pain and difficulty. Many of us would also say that sometimes those we love have let us down when we needed them most. This is where God’s unchanging character can step into our lives and fill the gaps to overflowing.
We live in a broken world where tragedy and trial come without warning or consideration. We are broken people with limitations, weaknesses and flaws that severely hamper our ability to truly satisfy the needs of others. Only one can give what is needed for each wound. Only one meets the needs of Jeremiah when he laments, “I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall.” The God who never changes. When everything else is falling apart, including ourselves, God remains merciful, kind, compassionate, faithful and loving. He is our hope and comfort. This is at the heart of living in an attitude of thanksgiving.
This isn’t a roadmap to living life without pain and suffering. It is the compass that allows us to keep moving in the right direction in spite of our circumstances, both good and bad. When Paul exhorts the Thessalonians to “give thanks IN all circumstances” (emphasis mine), he means “in” not “for.” God is not thankful for hurt or pain or tragedy and I don’t believe He would require his children to either. Paul is reminding the Thessalonians, and us, that no matter what happens in this broken world, to broken people, God still loves and cares for us, still calls us onward to peace and joy, still holds us in his strong hands.
This Thanksgiving, hold this truth close to your heart and let it guide you to a gratitude that transforms and heals. Ask God to reveal His heart for you in the midst of your circumstances. Let God use you to be His compassion and mercy to those experiencing pain and suffering. Be grateful not for what you have, but for who you belong to, because God never changes.
6 responses to “Giving Thanks: Our Unchanging God”
I am feeling this blog! 2010 has been a hard year, but I have felt closer to God than ever! May we continue to lean on Him through blessings as much as we do through hardship!
Good to hear from you Nick and amen to your prayer. Keep up the great writing at your blog; some really good stuff there.
Thank you for reminding us of God’s faithfulness as a reason for thanksgiving. I stopped by because I am writing a flyer I plan to pass out Monday at Shasta College, “Thanksgiving? And who do I thank?
My purpose is to have a starting point for conversations about who Jesus is. So please pray that I might be gracious to all those I encounter, whatever their perspective and attitude.
But I’m not so sure that thanking God for a painful misfortune is never appropriate. If God is good, would he ever permit an evil that he cannot or will not use to produce a greater good? Perhaps my wrenching loss is necessary for accomplishing his good purpose in my life–or in the life of another.
Thank you for your thoughts on this blog. I hope that your time at Shasta College bears much fruit. I do not believe that God asks us to be thankful for things that are a result of our fallen nature or the fallen world that surrounds us. It is only God, and his presence in our circumstances that gives us reason to be thankful. Any situation that did not have God’s hand in it would be inherently flawed and purposeless. Voltaire used the story of Candide to lampoon the idea that blind acceptance of any situation as “God’s will,” regardless of the severity or obvious wickedness, was a dangerous way to view God. It is man’s flawed but free will that has warped God’s creation, perpetrates wickedness of every kind and brings us pain and trouble daily. God is good, all the time and that is true in every circumstance and, therefore, the cause for our thanksgiving. Just my thoughts on the subject.
Beautifully said, Chris. This morning in Bible study, we were discussing how we are blessed by our choice to walk in the Light, to follow Him. These precepts are outlined in His Word. Your essay reminds me that these truths are always true, because He never changes. His Word never changes. On Him we CAN depend. Just thinking about it stirs up the fires of gratitude. 🙂
Thanks Cathy. I know a lot of people going through difficult times right now and I hope that they can sink their roots into this truth.